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Punjabi wedding traditions are a strong reflection of Punjabi culture with ritual, song, dance, food, and dress that have evolved over centuries. Usually the ceremonies are conducted in Punjabi but the language of the religious portion may vary, such as Gurmukhi for Sikhs, Sanskrit for Hindus and Arabic for Muslims. ==Pre-wedding rituals== The couple commit to enter into wedlock and to refuse other proposals of marriage. ''Ardaas'' is said and gifts are exchanged. Rokka (Pre-engagement) It is an unofficial engagement ceremony where the boy's family and friends come give presents, money and blessings to the bride to be. The origin of this ceremony lies in the arranged marriage norm where the parents would let out the world that they are looking for a suitable match for their son or daughter. And once they had found that match, their search had come to an end. Though rings are not exchanged, the couple stand unofficially engaged after this ceremony. Looking forward to starting the wedding ceremonies. Mangni/Shagun (engagement) Engagement is a significant part of a Punjabi wedding. The bride's family visits the groom's family with gifts to confirm the engagement. Sagai Approximately a week before the wedding the ''sagai'' ceremony is held, in which a ''tikka'' forehead mark is applied. The bride's family visits the groom's family bringing gifts, the paste for the ''tikka'' mark and a silver tray with a few grains of rice and saffron in a small silver bowl, 14 dried dates (''chuharey'') wrapped in silver foil and a coconut wrapped in gold leaf. The bride's father applies the mark to the groom's forehead, blesses him and gives him some money. The bride's family receives baskets of seven dried fruits: almonds, cashewnuts, dried dates, coconut pieces, raisins, dried apricots (''khurman'') and puffed lotus seeds (''phoolmakhana''). The tikka ceremony may be combined with the engagement . First, the girl is draped with a ''chunni'' (stole), which is usually very ornate. In some families this ''chunni'' is a family heirloom, passed down from generation to generation. She is also presented with jewellery, which her mother and sister-in-law help her wear. A tiny dot of henna paste (''mehndi'') is applied to her palm for good luck, and the function is sealed with the exchange of rings. Everyone present congratulates the couple by feeding them sweets. Dholki/sangeet Can be one day or many days, usually high profile in a banquet hall, ladies sing traditional songs, and it is the eastern version of the western bridal shower. There is a ''sangeet'' function hosted by the girl's family, in which just a few close members of the boy's family are invited. The girl's family play the ''dholak'' drums and sing songs in which they tease the boy and his family. Nowadays people hire DJs and have a dance party followed by dinner. A ladies ''sangeet'' is held for the bride and her bridesmaids. Mehndi The last major function before the wedding is decoration with temporary henna (''mehndi'') tattoos.〔Mehndi〕 Mehndi artists are called to the houses of the boy and girl and apply mehendi to the palms of the female family members, and the hands and feet of the bride. A basket containing ''bindis'' and bangles is handed around so girls can choose those that match the outfit they plan to wear to the wedding. The Mehandi ceremony takes place in the atmosphere of a party. The bride and other ladies get mehendi (henna designs) done, on their hands and feet (most ladies get it done only on their hands but the bride gets it done on both hands and feet). For the bride the ''mehndi'' is sent by the future Mother in Law, which is beautifully decorated. 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア（Wikipedia）』 ■ウィキペディアで「Punjabi wedding traditions」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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